The C (creative, Crystal, calibrated, compiled) Week in Review #3
At first this didn’t seem like a very creative week, mostly a skill-building kind of week. Spending some of my days now with kids under the age of ten has actually made me more hopeful about the future. If you haven’t been in an elementary school since you last attended one, the one I currently am spending my days in could come as quite a shock: bright classrooms, kids out of their seats now and again, tech labs, music rooms, art rooms, an array of interventionists to help kids along, teacher’s aides, etc… and this is in a public school in West Virginia. Seems like there certainly has been a shift from my days years ago in the same state, silent, in rows, where speaking out of turn got your knuckles cracked with a ruler.
But all of this change also leaves me thinking, and, I have been thinking about this for a while: what are the actual useful things to know?
This is a long and hard debate, and I think of the debate between Booker T. Washington and Frederick Douglas about learning skills that would get you a job or learning for learning’s sake. My guess is that the truth is somewhere in between. If I could roll back the clock and have time to learn everything I really need to know… or, if I think of my husband’s kids or these kids I have in school now, if I could design a curriculum that would address life as we know it, I would include the following skills. Now, of course, not ONLY these skills, but as I approach the age of two score, these seem to be the essential skills for survival as a person in almost any situation and as a person that probably has to do something to earn money, or at the least, save money. These skills are not in order of relevance…yet, imagine how interesting and useful school would be if these skills were included, and, imagine what a different society this would be, too.
Essential Skills
Web authoring and web design
You can’t have a business, get the word out, or do almost anything without involving this know-how.
Photoshop
Ditto. It is essential for life on the web as we know it.
Farming, nutrition, and cooking
Everyone should be growing part of their own food. Period. If you can grow it, and grow the right things, you then need to know what to do with it.
A martial art
As I approach two score, almost no one I know that knows a martial art really well is a major screw-up. They seem to have some self-reliance, and they certainly have some discipline. Also, most martial arts seem to be lifelong pursuits, unlike football or baseball or gymnastics.
Self-defense
If everyone knew that everyone knew the basics, well,what a different homelife many people might have.
Auto mechanics and bicycle repair
You have to get from here to there somehow. You should be able to do a lot yourself. Gun safety is also important (see below).
Psychology, interpersonal relationships, conflict resolution
‘Nuff said. Know the nuts and bolts of yourself and others and how to deal with nuts. You are going to be working in teams and maybe “managing up” a lot, so learn maybe the reasons behind the why. Learn how to get along with almost (and almost, but not all) anyone: bosses, co-workers, partners, spouses, exes, children, neighbors…. In short, it’s not all about you…and the converse, no, they can’t do that/say that to you, either.
Childcare, teen care, elder care
At some point in your life you will most likely take care of a child, a teen, or an elder. Learn now what you need to know later.
Animal care, animal slaughter, food (or wool or leather) from animals
Don’t get a pet unless you know how to and can care for it. Ew, animal slaughter grosses you out? Then don’t eat or wear animals anymore–then learn how to make yourself a grass skirt when or if you may need it. If you can handle learning to prepare from step one on up the meat that you eat, then learn it. You never know when it may be essential.
Management
At some point either you will be put into a position managing other people and you will have no business doing that or you will work for someone who is responsible for managing you and has no business doing it. Lots of people managing others have never taken one class in interpersonal skills, conflict resolution, or psych much less management. And no, having an MD, a JD, or a PhD does not make you a people person or endow you with one shred of sense when it comes to business plans, business orchestration, teamwork, etc… Also, you may have an MBA and find yourself managing up, which I hear about all the time from almost everyone I know dealing with Boomer bosses that can’t even log into their own email accounts (yes, still, in 2010) or who don’t like to learn anything technical (which includes anything about the web).

Meditation
Stress, anyone? It’s the #1 killer, really. We should all probably know how to chill.
Household repairs, wood carving, and construction
Landlords or slumlords don’t show. Your McMansion is a McDisaster. The starter got up and left. Fix it so you can live in peace. Build it so you don’t have to pay to have it built.
Simple electronics and computer repair
Ditto. We should all not be afraid of opening up the back of a PC or Mac and installing the extra memory.
Accounting, Excel, personal accounting, and tax preparation
For your own finances, for where you work, so you don’t screw others or don’t get screwed in the spreadsheets.
Swimming
It’s good for you and you should know how in case you need to.
Emergency preparedness, basic medical care, and CPR
Again, it’s good for you and you should know how in case you need to.
Basic video and audio production
Want it on the web? Need to show it? Learn how to make it.
Ethics, Philosophy, and World Religions
The first two are intertwined with the last one. In order to make sense of what to do and how to behave, and, how to make sense of the news, these seem more essential than ever.
Entrepreneurship, starting a business, making a business plan
Even if you don’t start your own, this is useful stuff to understand the ones you are working for.
Geography
Not just part of a World History class… but it’s own class that also discusses topography, climate, peoples, etc…
Principles of democracy, social movements, and organizing
I’ve needed these skills at any number of jobs–how to get people together, how to form groups that are fair, how to get the word out in a community. It’s something everyone should know how to do.
Piano or guitar
You can also write a song or make friends if you know one of these. I’ve seen this happen dozens of times in my adult life.
Ballroom dance
This may seem silly, but, at higher level social functions, many folks know how to swing, jitterbug, foxtrot, or cha-cha and this is true around the world. If you are suddenly in a room with diplomats and there is live dance music, this is a needed skill to have.
Marketing, PR, advertising & media literacy
Not only should you know the man behind the mirror, you should know how to make a mirror if you need to. Most business or most of life takes some kind of marketing know-how these days…

Driving a car, truck, or motorcycle, boat, or semi-
You never know when one or the other of these may be the thing you need to know how to work.
Gun safety and use
Same here–you never know when one or the other of these may be the thing you need to know how to work.
Tying knots
I am not so sure about this one, except that my husband laments he doesn’t know more about it. Seems like a natural to learn maybe in geometry class or something and could be useful in a bind (all puns intended).
This is my list, and, of course I don’t know everything on this list–or even a lot of it–but it now seems like a good list to use to start with. It seems that if you know these things, you’d be ready for most anything life could send your way. I could and maybe intend to build a school curriculum that builds these in. This list seems to have a good mix of “hard” technical and physical survival skills and “softer” skills like getting along with people and getting people together to accomplish things.
Hey, you out there, if you are listening, anything I’ve missed that should be on the list?